Cultivate confidence, upgrade your mindset, and live a fulfilled life

Johnelle Hosking Confidence Coach

Live a fulfilled life

Self confidence is the most important pillar of creating and living a fulfilled life.

Courageous confidence will allow you to make the career change, get the promotion, create your own business

Women's Circles

Are two hour gatherings held virtually through zoom and in person around the Bay of Plenty, New Zealand. This is your time to connect with yourself and like minded women to grow your confidence

Career Confident Now

Is a 90 day coaching programme designed to instill massive confidence, decide exactly what you want and give you back your zest for life. The programme includes 1:1 sessions with Johnelle creating results fast!

Virtual Trainings

Check out our mini-workshops where we dive deep into a specific topic and teach you how to develop new habits in that area. You'll walk away ready to take action.

Get Confident Podcast

Weekly episodes filled with confidence boosting tools and inspiration. Johnelle and her guests tell you everything they know in simple to apply ways so you can cultive confidence and live a fulfilled life.

How I can help you

Women's Circles

Connect with yourself and like minded women around a monthly theme. Great for you time and getting out of your comfort zone.


A custom coaching plan to work through your main goals/priorities over three months with deep accountability. You'll learn how to live the life you've always dreamed of


A way to inspire confidence in many people at once. Great for work or community events to upskill your mindset

''In less than 24 hours after completing this masterclass I've come up with a 12 week game plan and got buy in from my household''

I've walked away from this masterclass feeling really clear on where I can make some changes to be able to progress some of my bigger picture goals. In less than 24 hours after completing this masterclass I've come up with a 12 week game plan and got buy in from my household about where to from here and how. I'm really excited about what next for me. I don't think I would be at this stage of being able to take action if it weren't for some of the gems I've taken away from the session.

Jessica, Waikato NZ

Get Confident Blog

blog image

This too becomes part of your story

November 05, 20223 min read

This too becomes part of your story

>> Listen to this on the Get Confident podcast

I want to help you be confident in yourself, but I also want you to know that life isn't all highs. There will be bad days, and that's normal.

Positive thinking is important, but so is being realistic and allowing yourself the respect of feeling all of your feelings.

There are times when we feel overwhelmed and uncertain. We all have these moments, and I've certainly been experiencing them lately. But I wanted to share with you some of the things I've learned and the progress I've made throughout this process.

I think it's important to share this stuff because there's a lot of toxic positivity out there, especially in the personal development world. People try to act like you're not allowed to have negative emotions or down days, which makes you feel really crap and like you're alone in your experience which is not helpful.

I think that expectation and that pressure to have our feelings and emotions together all of the time is honestly setting us all up for failure.

I quite often have friends and even clients voice message me when they are having one of those days and I am so proud of anyone who can acknowledge their feelings and just feel them.

I know that sharing is something that's really hard to do. Sometimes we feel like we have to bury it down and we have to pretend everything's okay because if we don't, and if we let the top off or if we show one sign of weakness, people will think less of us.

I believe that it's okay to fall apart. It's not as bad as you think it is.

I've felt this way in life before and I'm sure I'll feel it again. It's okay to feel that way.

We're all human, and sometimes it's easy to compare ourselves to others and feel like we're not doing enough. But it's important to remember that everyone's journey is different.

I've had so many people in my ear lately. And these are people who are all very well-intentioned but it's made me quite overwhelmed. For a moment I let their comments, thoughts, and opinions cloud my own judgement.

We need to remember that we know what is best for us. When we seek validation or approval from others, it can have the opposite effect. This can lead to confusion, conflict, and feeling out of alignment. This is how I felt. Honestly, none of it was helpful and it didn't feel good to me.

When I felt this way I was thankfully reminded of a quote from Ed Milet that says, "this too becomes part of your story."

I honestly just love this concept, that when things are going so freaking good like you've got all the highs, that you're on top of the world, that becomes part of your story, right?

Then when you have these lows, these times when you're really stressed out, these times when there's just too much going on and you don't know where to start and you don't know who to turn to and you don't know what advice to take, that too becomes part of your story.

So when you're feeling overwhelmed there are four key things to remember.

1) All of your feelings are valid

2) You don't need to keep them secret, sharing your feelings gives you power

3) When you're overwhelmed ask yourself if you're taking on others opinions too much

4) This too becomes part of your story


Johnelle Hosking

Back to Blog

Being the example

I believe that confident, empowered and fulfilled women will create massive change in the world.

My job is to be the example of growth, confidence and commitment to creating change.

It's my mission to educate, inspire and empower other women to be the example too, within their family, community and their every day lives.

I truly believe this is how we can create a future thats positive for all, one person at a time.

Live a fulfilled life today

Get all the benefits of having deep self confidence by listening to this short meditation


Headline that hooks people in, gets them excited and makes them want to sign up.